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Inspired by watching The Dark Knight Rises on my recent flight, I wanted to write an article about trading and fear.  Of all the emotions that affect a trader negatively, fear would be at the top of the list.

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Ask yourself;

-Have you ever not pulled the trigger when your system gave you a signal?
-Have you ever been paralyzed by a series of losses (or one big loss) that prevented you from taking a trade?
-Have you ever made a poor decision because you were thinking of your last losses?
-Has the fear of losing money ever affected you from doing what you know would help your trading?

If any of these have happened to you, do not worry, you are not alone, and are likely in a large group of traders – a majority if anything.

Fear is a highly powerful emotion that has paralyzed many at one moment or another.  It has confused you, separated you from your intelligence, your wisdom, your ability to make a good decision.  This is true not just in trading, but also in life.

Of almost every mental, emotional or psychological issue I’ve encountered with traders, fear has always been at the root of the issue.

Fear of losing money, of hitting your equity threshold and trading too large, fear of failure, fear of being wrong, fear of making a mistake, fear of about anything you can imagine, with fear as the common denominator.

There are really three stages to fear for a person, especially in forex trading, which I will briefly go over, and talk about how to remedy your fears.

 

Stage 1 – Paralysis and Confusion

Being such a powerful emotion, at a base level, fear tends to cloud our judgment when experiencing fear on any level.  If we are not aware of it, or do not know how to deal with it, it will paralyze us, such as paralysis analysis.  It will actually reduce our mental and cognitive resources, forcing us to use a more primitive portion of our brain called the Limbic System (our most ancient brain).  You may have heard this as fight or flight, but really when fear takes a hold of us, we are separated from our natural intelligence in the moment we most surely need it.  We become the deer on headlights, frozen when we should act.  And this leads to confusion.

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By having no awareness of fear, or being run over by it, we take the path of confusion, and this leads to bad trading decisions.

Perhaps not pulling the trigger, even though our system has a signal.  Perhaps leveraging too little for being afraid of losing money.  Whatever the reason, fear at the basic level is of no use to us, and if anything at all – is highly damaging to our life, and our trading performance.

The only way to pass stage 1 of relating to fear, is to first become aware of it, then realize how it affects you. Once you do this, you have the ability to use fear, which is just a highly potent energy.

If you have trouble becoming aware of fear, there are several options, such as doing yoga, practicing meditation before trading, listening to binaural beats, or using a neurofeedback device to monitor your neural activity.  Any will work in their own way, but they will help you become aware of it to get past stage 1. Without it, you will forever be a servant to your fears.  But after this, you can use fear to your advantage which is the next stage.

 

Stage 2 – Using Fear To Your Advantage

Imagine being aware that you have the fear of failure.  It could, like in stage 1 paralyze you from making an important decision.

But…it can also be used to enhance your performance.  It can be used to your advantage to become a better trader.

In The Dark Knight Rises, Batman wasn’t afraid of dying, and this lack of fear of death separated him from an energy – an energy to do something beyond normal.  He eventually used this fear for his gain.

 

How Can Fear Be Used For Trading?

Imagine being afraid to fail, which in stage 1 means you are paralyzed.  But if you have the awareness of it, recognize your fears, you can use this energy (which is all fear and emotion are), to perform better.  You can use this to work harder, to do the things that build your skills, to practice your technique and system more, to put more hours behind the chart, to fear failure more than inaction.

Fear can be used to push you to the next level, and it is often fear which is at the root of someone who is highly driven.  They fear the outcome of failure, so they work harder to make sure it never happens.   In stage 2, fear is used as an energy to enhance your performance, to work harder than the next person, to not accepting mediocrity as you know how it sets you back.  Instead of being paralyzed and confused by fear, you transform it into a vehicle for your success.

If done correctly, it can bring you a tremendous increase to your efforts which can lead to success.  And although this may seem like a victory, it is a limited one – and certainly not the golden prize, which is the next stage.  Generally successful traders have fear, but they use this to their advantage and have built a successful trading mentality.

 

Stage 3 – Transformation of Fear

You always hear about fear and greed in trading, but this comes from the belief they cannot be overcome. This is shortsided and misunderstands the mind.  Fear can be transformed and something you are rid of. Imagine how you would be able to act in trading and life if you were without fear of death, without fear of loss, without fear of failure?

Imagine if you never had to deal with those energies, that all your intelligence and wisdom was directed to the problem at hand, to the moment?   You would never even have to take the side-road of using it for your advantage.  You could just act freely, uninhibited and without hesitation.  There would be nothing to protect, no future scenario you worried about, and nothing to lose.

Fear does not have to be a part of your life and especially your trading.

Just imagine what you could do without fear?  Imagine if  your resources were used to advance your trading and life?  Go over your trading journal and look at how many times you hesitated, with the trade ending up a highly profitable winner?  I’m willing to bet if you turn those non-trades into profits, or losing trades into winners, you would have a completely different account than you do today.

The good thing is you do not have to become a buddhist monk or a shaolin warrior to overcome fear.  With a little ERT training, and willingness on your part, fear can be transformed.  Your neural pathways can be reprogrammed towards success, intelligence and wisdom, all without fear.  It’s really just a question of will, effort and a desire to take things to the next level in trading and life.

 

On An Ending Note

Ask yourself where you are in your experience with fear and trading, and then ask yourself what you have done about it, and what you would do to turn the corner.  Ask yourself what are you willing to do to become a successful trader.  I have tons of students email me saying they will do anything.  But when the moment comes time and time again, they choose the path of fear, they choose to not take the risk which is what this game is about (financial and psychological).

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Our decisions and focus determine what we manifest in trading and life.  The question of how it ends is always within you.  In reality, trading is putting yourself in front of a mirror where you are given two choices;
-either become prey to your weaknesses, confusions and fears
-or rise to overcome them and empower yourself to live a different life

Regardless of which path you take, I hope this forex trader psychology article has provoked, challenged and inspired you to look at fear in a different way, and given you options to take your trading to the next level.

The Question
I was recently talking with a student in one of my trading courses who is an eager beaver.  They definitely have the desire to trade for a living, but I noticed something of a repeating pattern for them.  They would constantly not trade the system as is, make modifications to it and adjust the risk parameters.

I have often wondered why a developing student who wants to learn how to trade, but hasn’t made it on their own, make all of these decisions which would hurt their trading.

I am certainly guilty of this in my early days, without a doubt.  But like in Archery, I trusted my teacher, and decided to practice the technique he taught me.  Originally, this was not the case, but he told me that when I can shoot consistently and the technique is 2nd nature, then I can bring in my own style.  Until then, I followed his technique.

But the question has been with me for some time, as to why traders like myself (back in the day), or others would make decisions that obstruct them from the goal they so clearly want – to trade profitably and for a living.

The answer to this mercurial piece of the puzzle came together this past July.

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A Weekend of Training
For about 6 weeks this last summer, I was on vacation in the US visiting family and friends.  But for one weekend, I was in a training that helped me answer some long lasting questions about trading, for myself and my students as to why some do things which hurt the learning process.

The training was a QRA Level 1 intensive.  QRA stands for Quantum Reflex Analysis and it was a weekend where I was pounded with information.  QRA is based on Biophysics, particularly on the work by Fritz-Albert Popp, an award winning physicist with hundreds of publications.

QRA is mostly focused on the healing of physical illnesses, but also works on a psychological/emotional level.

Although I remember many things from the weekend, one moment stood out amongst the rest.

The trainer was talking about someone who had cancer that came to see the Doctor and head of the QRA program.  They were wanting to get cured of their cancer, but the Doctor kept running into strange ‘blocks‘ in trying to help with the healing process.  It dawned on him that the client actually had underlying psychological or limiting beliefs that were interfering with the healing process.

The Answer
Imagine – someone has cancer and they have tried everything to cure it, spending hundreds of thousands of dollars and going through tons of painful treatments and surgeries.  They obviously want to live and want to be free from the disease.  But the whole time, there was something interfering with the healing process – and it was them the entire time.  It turns out they actually had a sub-conscious belief they did not deserve to live, and this program was running in the background the entire time.

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Suddenly, the light went on and it all came clear to me – this is what happens to traders who use improper risk management even though they know the math is against them.  This is what happens to traders who don’t trade the system, even though they know it makes money.  This is what happens when;

-a trader jumps in too early, before they get a signal
-or chases a trend when they know they shouldn’t
-trades out of emotion, trying to get losses back when they have no signal
-overtrades
-adds to a losing trade
-gets over-confident and thinks they ‘got it’ after just a few months
-trades way beyond their position sizing
-takes profit before hitting their target
-doesn’t accept their risk and panics, exiting too early only to watch the trade run to their limit
-fails to pull the trigger when they do get a signal

You know the story, because it has happened to you, just as it has happened to me.

Have you ever wondered, why you make the decisions you do, even though you know they are not helpful to your trading?

Is it your fear that overcomes your clarity?  Is it your impatience that overcomes your discipline?  Why do you not prepare for your trading day when you know how challenging trading is?

Whatever it is, it is currently in you, in your psyche and wired into your brain, causing you to repeat many of the patterns that has held you back.

You have known this in some way (hopefully), but it is very possible (and likely) you have a program running in the background, which is interfering with you trading successfully and reaching your goals.

You Mean I Don’t Want to Be Successful?
It is actually possible (like the patient), some part of you does not want to trade successfully.  It is actually possible, some part of you is afraid of being successful, of being wealthy, of being a disciplined trader, of reaching your goals.  If any of these, or many other programs and unconscious beliefs are there, then they will always short circuit your process and efforts to trade profitably.

The good thing is – you can change all this.  The brain has an ability to learn new things.  It has neuro-plasticity, meaning it can be re-wired with amazing flexibility.  You can learn new things at almost any age, you can increase your IQ, you can develop skills regardless of your background and training.  Thus, regardless of what patterns and behaviors are inhibiting you, they can be re-written.

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I have actually trained in both QRA and ERT (Emotional Repolarization Technique), doing dozens of sessions designed to re-wire my neural connections, to function in a more optimal state, in a whole-brain state, to remove any unconscious programs which would interfere with my trading, along with many other things.

If I could have started my entire trading career over, I would have started with this training from the very beginning.  If I could recommend one thing to build a successful trading mentality, for those having psychological issues interfering with your trading, to combine with your learning process while working with a mentor, it would be this.

Two Questions
With all of that being said, I would like to end with two questions;

If you could watch yourself trade, like an observer, what advice would you give yourself?

and the other…

What would you do, study and train in order to trade successfully?

I hope you enjoyed this forex trader tip article, and that it has brought up some intriguing questions for you.   Please feel free to share, along with your thoughts on the article.

Kind Regards,
Chris

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